Dynamite Strategies for the Ultimate First Date
The first date is the most important part of your “relationship.”
If you’re doing naughty dating right, you will probably only have one date with a lot of the women you meet on these sites. After all, this is sort of the point of naughty dating—you meet, have sex, and go on your separate ways after you’re both satisfied.
Planning out your date with this lady can make sure that you’re both satisfied more fully, as well as making sure that you don’t commit any missteps along the way. You want her to be pleased with the dates you’ve been on, not annoyed, and that isn’t as easy as you might thing.
Note: the following does not apply if you’re meeting a woman who wants a submissive and you’ve already talked about that. In that case, get on your knees already.
One of the biggest and most universal turn-ons that women have is in a confident man. This turns them on in ways they don’t always want to admit, and you have a huge “in” if you walk into the establishment like you’re already in total control of the situation.
Take control, and make it known that you’re not going to give it back for the rest of the night. Kiss her as soon as you meet, to establish the fact that you’re willing to go as fast as she is.
It’s never too early to talk about how turned on you are.
We know it’s strange that we mentioned specifically in our guide to sending the perfect email that you should never talk about how hot a woman is, while we say that you can tell her she’s turning you on as soon as you meet her for the first time in person.
However, this is very different for women. They’ve chosen to be on this date, and they’ve put effort into the way they look. This is the kind of place where they want to hear how good they look, because they’ve done it at least partially for your benefit.
Talking about how turned-on you are is a double-edged sword.
On one hand, it gets the ball rolling in the direction you want—toward the bedroom. You definitely want her to know that your initial date strategy is to move things towards the bed eventually, and telling her you’re already thinking about it is a great way to do that.
On the other hand, you have to be careful. If you don’t handle this well, it will come across as extremely vulgar, which isn’t what you want at all. In order to avoid this, don’t mention your actual parts, i.e. “My dick is so hard for you,” or, “Wow, a little someone just sat up and said hello.”
These are turn-offs, because they’re weird. You might think that you’re steering the conversation in the right way again, but sadly, this isn’t the case. You can use language like that when you’re in bed, but not before. Vulgarity is a huge turn-off for most women.
Pay attention to what you wear.
If you’re going to seduce a woman, you have to make sure she’s as turned on by you as you are by her. You have to dress like a guy that’s sure he’s going to drop panties to the floor as soon as he enters a room. You can’t just fake something like that.
Clothes matter to women, and not just their own clothes. You want to be a guy that she wants to be seen with, even if you’re only out together for a couple minutes before retiring to a place that’s a lot more fun (and where clothes won’t matter).
This is true even if you’re planning to meet for five minutes in a hotel bar and head straight for the room. She still wants to know that she’s made the right choice about you, and dressing like a guy who has his shit together is a sure way to make sure you’re set.
Don’t wear a suit unless she’s asked you to, or you tell her you’re coming right from work.
A suit establishes a level of professionalism that’s a little weird in a date. You’re not meeting an escort, you’re meeting a woman that wants to take you to a hotel room for some fun. Don’t make it weird, unless she already knows that there’s a reason you’ll be wearing it.
If your only “nice” outfit is a suit, then wear it—but let her know that you’ll be coming right from work, and that she doesn’t have to dress to match you. You want to make a woman feel comfortable, not out of place and nervous about the night ahead.
With these first date tips, we’re confident that you have all the advice for the first date you could possibly need.