Turn Her On With More Provocative Information
Women looking for naughty dating sites are looking for guys who stand out from the rest. The worst thing you can do is be boring. Even guys with blatantly awful personalities get noticed, if not in a good way.
There are good ways to stand out.
This is what guys who claim to be “nice guys” don’t understand about women. Being “nice” isn’t enough. You have to have some way you’re standing out of the pack that gets you noticed, or you’re not going to get any attention…obviously enough.
The problem is that the only way most guys can think of to stand out is to be an asshole, which is at least more noticeable than being a generic “nice guy.” Don’t worry, we can teach you how to stand out by not being an asshole, but a really sexy guy who turns women on.
Our naughty dating advice is to play to a woman’s fantasy. You want to be a woman’s fantasy. Every guy wants to be a woman’s fantasy, or at least every guy we’ve met.
Being a fantasy is easier than you think.
There are several different fantasies that you can tap into. Here are our favorite, easiest fantasies that women have that you can tap into immediately with just a few words:
- The Dom
This man is casual, confident, and completely self-assured—arrogant, but he can back it up with some actual prowess. He’s not worried about finding women—he’s already got all he could ever want. He’s doing women a favor by showing up on dating sites because they might need a man like him.
- The Sub
Putting yourself out there as this kind of man on a naughty dating site is a great provocative strategy—as long as you’re super comfortable with the idea of a woman on top in every sense of the word. Make sure you talk about how everything you do is for a woman’s pleasure. If you’re looking to attract a cougar, make sure you talk about how you love to learn from a woman who’s eager to share her experience.
- The Gentleman
This man is polite, but confident. He will always wear a suit in all of his pictures, and talks about old-fashioned ways to treat a woman in all aspects of life but the bedroom.
- The Lord Byron
Also known as the “Is he actually a vampire?” This guy always wears black, never looks happy, and probably has a dark secret or two—but he’s secretly longing to confess them. Look, we don’t know why this one works so well, but it really does.
- The Fetish Expert
This guy has been around the block when it comes to fetish and naughty dating, and knows more than any of the girls he’s going to hook up with—and he’s ready for anything. If you go for this, make sure you feature (casually) your toy collection in one of your photos in the background.
Being the “bad boy” is not enough.
There are a lot of guys who think that all they can do to stand out from the crowd is to be the bad boy. They take pictures of themselves with their motorcycles and their tattoos, and think that’ll get them the kind of play they always think that bad boys get.
Unfortunately, women see a lot of bad boys, and even more guys who are trying way too hard to be bad boys. This is not enough to make yourself look interesting to any woman.
Learn to be what women really want.
The first step to learning to do this is learning that not all women want the same thing—and being okay with becoming something different for every woman and what they want.