Respond to Women to Ensure You Get the Date
Lots of guys are great at sending the first email, but tend to freeze as soon as they get the first response. This isn’t always because they don’t know what to do, but because they get intimidated or worried about the fact that they could mess something up.
Don’t wait to reply.
The longer you wait to reply, the better chances are that this woman is going to think you’re not worth her time. Remember the ratio of men to women on these sites; she’s not exactly hurting for dates that WILL return her email in a prompt fashion.
Our best email response strategy is to go after this woman right away with a response. You have to be ready to match whatever she’s talking about (and offering), or you’re wasting her time. If you don’t have anything to say or you’re too shy to go after her, let some other guy take her on a naughty date.
Pay attention to her email.
Don’t concentrate on what you want from this woman—concentrate on the actual words she’s saying to you. No matter what your initial email said, all you have to work with is the text of her email.
If she asks you a question, respond to that question directly, without trying to lead her in any specific direction. Women want men that will listen to them instead of ignoring them, so make sure you aren’t obviously putting what they say on hold for your own desires.
Also pay attention to her tone as well as her words.
If this woman says that she’s not sure about going out with you, you have to put her mind at ease. You don’t want to frighten her off, you want her to be excited and relaxed about going on a date with you, no matter what kind of naughty response advice you’ve read on other sites about keeping her “off balance” to make her easier to date.
If she’s eager, you need to meet that excitement and build on it. You want to be a guy she feels compatible with, and seeing that you’re in the same place emotionally will work very well in your favor.
If she’s having second thoughts about something in particular, address it, if you can. Otherwise, just assure her that you’ve been on naughty dates before, and you can be trusted to take the lead if she’s feeling a little nervous or shy about what’s going to happen.
Don’t assume she wants to skyrocket to the date.
Many men make the mistake that getting a response to their emails that they’re automatically getting a naughty date with this woman. This is a huge mistake, and can lead to you being alone both today and in the future, in which you could otherwise have been meeting a woman for a naughty date.
Again, listen to her. If she says she wants to take it slow, consider whether you want to put that kind of effort into this “relationship,” or if you just want to find another woman to have naughty dates with.
Keep the conversation going.
You want to respond to what she says, and also build in more hooks, tests, and questions to make sure that this isn’t the last email. Make sure she thinks there are things you need to know from her.
This will inspire her to keep the conversation going, at least via email, which is much better than not having it going at all. Of course, you’re not on a naughty dating site for tips about how to have email conversations.
Let her know you’re ready to move forward.
Go ahead and ask if she’s serious about going on a date. Let her know that you’re up for anything—if she wants to meet tonight, you’re ready with your chin shaved and a bottle of wine with the corkage fee in your pocket.
She might not respond positively to this advance, but letting her know you’re ready isn’t rude. You want her to realize that you’re not on this site just to play around—you’re here to find a naughty date, and have some great fun while you’re at it.