You might be thinking that the entire point of naughty dating is to get what you’re looking for from hot women, but the fact of the matter is that there’s far more to sex than just getting in, and getting out. The best sex has a psychological element to it that gives you a heightened sense of need and arousal. Naughty sex or dating, in and of itself, is a kink in its own right. It carries a certain connotation of doing something wrong or sinful, and there’s no better way than to play with the exchange of power in a relationship. We don’t mean you actually have to be in a relationship with a woman to do this, but you need a kinky, willing partner who’s interested in the same type of fetish.
Chastity devices are created to hamper the ability of an individual to partake in sexual intercourse and even arousal, depending on the type of device you decide you want to try. It has a lot to do with ownership and control, and it can be a really hot experience, whether you’re in control or not. We’re not talking dominant and submissive kinks here, but chastity devices that don’t get too extreme – as in not up your butt – can be fun and naughty. Here are two options that we’ve found have brought us and the women we’ve slept with to new levels of orgasm.
Keeping Her Honest: Chastity Devices for Her
Female chastity devices have existed since the beginning of time, and today, they’re commonly sold as a fetish toy. You can find them pretty much anywhere, from common online shopping sites to adult sex shops, and they come in an array of materials, styles, and colors. A basic female chastity belt is literally a belt that wraps around the waist and between her legs, blocking off the ability for penetration. The fasteners on the belt have padlocks that can be attached to them, and you can actually lock them up with a key. While this can be fun, we suggest starting easy and keeping it unlocked. She can wear it throughout the day and know she’s yours.
Keeping It in Your Pants: Cock Cages and More
The two most common chastity toys for men are cock cages and other devices that delay orgasm in different ways, such as cock rings. One type of chastity device is designed for play when in a sexual context, while the other is made specifically to be worn long-term. We have a thing for doing something naughty in public, even if no one else knows. Wearing a chastity device intended for long-term use means that you go about your everyday activities, as if everything’s normal, but in reality, you’re under your female partner’s control. A cock cage is basically designed to enclose your dick in a material, such as silicone, so that you can’t jerk off or touch yourself – and no one else can either. It makes arousal impossible, and they’re also equipped to allow you to do all your necessarily bodily functions. It can be really hot to have it on lock down, because when you spring free, you’re definitely ready to go.