We get it. We’re men. We like to brag about our accomplishments, and why shouldn’t we? There’s nothing wrong with bragging. It gives us a boost of confidence, and when we’re proud about things like job promotions, sports records, or even getting our women the best orgasm of her life, we want our friends to know about it. Unfortunately, many times when bragging comes into play, followed almost immediately behind it is envy and jealousy. A little bit of envy is all right amongst friends as it gives us something to strive for. However, when jealous begins to rear its ugly head, you may find that your friends are not really your friends at all.
What should you expect when you let your friends in on your sexy secret?
When you reveal to your friends that you have a woman on the side, usually they will all respond positively. If you’re cheating on your wife or girlfriend, you probably have a logical reason for it. She may not be giving you what you need in the relationship, so you’ve gone to look elsewhere. Your friends will understand that.
They may ask you questions such as where you met the other woman or how you met her. If you met her online via one of the numerous naughty dating websites available, they may ask about that particular website and how they can go about finding their own mistresses. When this happens, you may want to give your friends a similar website that you know of, but not the exact one that you used. You don’t want them searching and locating your account and using it to blackmail you.
What should you do to make sure they don’t spill the beans?
Another thing you may want to prepare for is one of your friends feeling sorry for your wife or girlfriend. This is the person in the group who you will want to keep your eye on. When this person expresses disappointment about your cheating, you may want to pretend to be sincere and thoughtful when you listen to him. Try to make him believe that you never realized how much you could be hurting your woman, and then stop talking about your fling immediately.
Once you start to believe that someone may squeal, you’ll want to make sure you limit any and all communication between your friends and your wife or girlfriend. Do not invite the guys over when your woman is around. They can no longer be trusted not to let something slip accidently (or on purpose.)
If you’re really worried about one of them ratting you out, tell your wife that you stopped hanging out with one or more of the friends who you don’t particularly trust. Let her know it’s because you don’t trust them, and because they seemed they might have had some interest in her. She’ll be flattered that you ended a friendship for her, and if one of them does happen to tell her about your cheating, she will think that they’re making it up because they want to break the two of you up.
Remember, that you aren’t obligated to tell your friends about your fling even if you’ve known them your entire life. If you feel like certain friends can’t be trusted, it’s better to keep your mouth shut no matter how badly you may want to brag.