Sex toys aren’t just the something to get you through a dry spell without a girlfriend. When used properly, sex toys can enhance your sex life and give you and your woman perfect satisfaction every time. These sex toys range from the simplest to the most advanced. If you’re unfamiliar with using sex toys together, start from the bottom of the list and work up.
Something as simple and easy to use as a ribbed condom can be a sex toy. Whether you buy the kind made for men, the kind made for women, or if you get one of the nice ones that cost just a little bit extra, you can have ribs on both sides. These condoms create extra friction in all the right places, to let you and your lady have a marvelous evening.
Pair a ribbed condom with some flavored lube, and you have a great night. Pour the lube anywhere, or participate in more than one round of oral sex. Some flavors are better than others, so try a combo pack and see what you and she both like the best. Flavored lube works for her going down on you, as well as the other way around, so be sure you buy enough.
The Intermediate Level
Once you’ve graduated beyond the basics, you should really consider investing in a cock ring. These provide pleasure for you and her, as they help you sustain an erection for longer than ever before. This leads to tons of fun for her and the most satisfying orgasm of your life for you. You’ll want to buy at least your first one from a real sex shop. They’re more likely to have accurate sizing.
Most bondage gear falls into this intermediate level. Whips and chains and all good things take some experience to master, and it’s best to take it slow when you’re getting into it. Nipple clamps can be fantastic, but they can also cause serious damage if you don’t know how to use them first.
Advanced: Proceed with Caution
There are tons of options at every level, but once you’ve muddled through the intermediate level, you find yourself in the advanced options. Pegging is an ultimate fantasy for a lot of women, and many men find it highly enjoyable. The rigging, the harness, and the dildo all make this an advanced level sex toy use, but if you can open your mind wide enough you may find that the best sex of your life is where you least expected to find it.
Large scale toys, like sex swings, are also part of the advanced level and made for the enjoyment of both parties.
There are a lot of single person sex toys that can be used by just two people – vibrators, dildos, and so on – but these toys are specifically things meant to bring a couple closer together. Whether you’re popping your sex toy cherry with some cherry lube or hanging up the hooks for your new sex swing, multi-personal sex toys are the way to liven up your bedroom pleasure.